A Desi in Pardes ! ✈️
Every year, thousands of Indians leave their homes, their families, and the streets that shaped their childhoods. But why? Is it the lure of higher salaries, the promise of a better lifestyle, or something less tangible—something we often don’t talk about? Yes, money matters. Financial stability can open doors and provide security that feels out of reach back home. Lifestyle matters too—freedom, better infrastructure, and opportunities that shape not just careers, but identities. But there’s a cost. Leaving behind festivals, Sunday lunches with parents, friends who’ve known us since school, and the everyday culture that feels like home. Sometimes, when living far from home, I wonder—does staying abroad make you feel like “Ye jo desh hai tera” ( Swades ) resonates more deeply, or does distance slowly fade the connection we carry with our roots? Living abroad isn’t just about adjusting to a new city—it’s about rebuilding a life from scratch. We learn to create our own t...